I actually feel that no matter what I do at Baby Yoda hugs Donate Life t-shirt, it’s never good enough. So at 45 I’m back at school. It’s excess. And it’s almost as bad as doing nothing. Because what is good gets lost in the excess. These are pretty solid words of wisdom even for us non-parents out there.
I don’t have children yet and feel this way – little patience for bs, people who deliberately don’t listen and wasting my time. I’m also self-employed. I think it could be from coming from a long line of generations of women who worked. Or maybe it’s just inherent in women.
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I think these words sum up so many problems in our Country. The excess, the more, the greed: it hides the good. All we need is ‘good,’ not ‘more. ’ Love this. We need to stop admiring burnout. Healthy limits are better for everybody. Businesses keep Baby Yoda hugs Donate Life t-shirt longer, customers have better interactions and families can function. It’s funny how mothers, doctors, and our military are all completely exhausted and yet they do some of the most vital work.
And Brah Arndt I completely agree. I’ve been working in social services for 15 years and I’m barely hanging on. But there is such a need for the work we do that you feel like setting boundaries is selfish. It’s a tough situation in fields where you work with people who depend on you for vital services. You also see your colleagues pushing themselves and feel like you owe it to them to push just as hard. The cycle is brutal. I can’t imagine how much worse Baby Yoda hugs Donate Life t-shirt must be for ER staff, paramedics, etc.
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I agree with you to some extent re: setting boundaries is selfish. I’ve worked in mental health for over 20 years and there was a time that I felt just like that but then I realized that if I didn’t create some boundaries, I was allowing people to take advantage; often times, by coworkers or management, b, c the more you do, the more you’re expected to do.
That’s how compassion fatigue, burnout sets in. By not setting boundaries, we’re setting ourselves up for failure and the fact is, you can’t really serve Baby Yoda hugs Donate Life t-shirt in a healthy, meaningful way if you’re not taking care of yourself first. I got over my need to get all the work done right away b, c at the end of the day, the work will always be there, whether I’m doing it or someone else is doing it. Practicing self-care is not selfish.
Setting limits is a critical component of self-care. If people feel that I’m being selfish, i’ve never heard that, then that’s their issue, not mine. I get my work done and after all these years, I’m still passionate about what I do for a living. That’s balance.
Until everyone starts sticking to what their boundaries are, it won’t stop. The companies do it cause they know they can get away with it. She’s so right. Having been back at work for 3 months now after maternity leave i’ve realized I never should have given into that excess before. I never should have been working the hours I was because it doesn’t matter. Now I work 9-5 and just don’t care, well, I’m working on not caring, my Baby Yoda hugs Donate Life t-shirt is more important.